7 Thoughts That May Help You End a Painful Relationship
One thing you must believe that no one can tell you your future because it depends on decisions sometime you take good decisions and sometimes bad but one thing you have to admit that " You are the only person who can make the best decision about your life.
Painful relationship is difficult to over come when it ends but One day these painful moments will be a distant memory and these 7 tips will help you for when a Relationship Ends.
1. Try not to take it personally. Some relationships were never meant to be, and some simply don’t work out in the end. It isn’t always a reflection on you (or even them).
2. Act as if you’re happy, and are coping, with your life. Often, “fake it till you make” can make a difference. It can give you needed strength so you can make it through each day.
3. Choose to be thankful for the happy memories; and choose to forgive for the heartache and the pain. (Although this may be difficult and likely will take time.)
4. See this as a stepping stone – the future lies ahead. You may still meet someone special who will bring you happiness!
5. Let go of the old memories, the unmet expectations, the bitter disappointments and frustrated hopes and dreams. Only then will you be ready to live and love again.
6. Be patient, understanding and kind to yourself. It takes time to recover from a major loss in life.
7. Keep your eyes on the future, and what still lies ahead. You have good reason to hope that you will find true love again.
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A few people have capacity to adopt this and they get solace and success. Unfortunately, I am one of those people who could be hurt by someone multiple times and still believes there is a good side to them.
The true mark of maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back and it is easier said than done.