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10 Types of Emotional Manipulator




10 Types of Emotional Manipulator

1. The Constant Victim 
This kind of individual will always finds a way to end up as a victim in their relationships.

2. One-Upmanship Expert 
This person uses put downs, snide remarks and criticisms, to show that they’re superior, and know much more than you.

3. Powerful Dependents 
They hide behind the mask of being weak and powerless – then use their helplessness to dominate relationships. That is, they send the subtle message “you must not let me down.”

4. Triangulators 
This person tries to get other people on their side. They’re quick to put you down, and to say some nasty things. They separate good friends or drive a wedge in families.

5. The Blasters 
They blast you with their anger or they blow up suddenly. That stops you asking questions - in case there’s a showdown.

6. The Projector 
This person thinks they’re perfect and others have the flaws. They take no ownership – because they’re never, ever wrong.

7. The Deliberate Mis-Interpreter 
They seem like a nice person – but they twist and use your words. They spread misinformation and misinterpret you. Thus, they deliberately present you in a false, negative way.

8. The Flirt 
This person uses flirting to get their way in life. They want to be admired and to have an audience. However, your feelings and your needs are of no concern to them.

9. The Iron Fist 
They use intimidation and throw their weight around, to use you for their ends, and to get their way in life.

10. The Multiple Offender 
This person uses several of the techniques we’ve described – and they’ll often switch between them if it suits their purposes.


What does it Mean to be Self Aware?


Healthy self-awareness means:

1. Being aware of our changing emotions, and knowing who and what tends to trigger them. Then, using that knowledge to choose how you respond.

2. Being aware of our negative, destructive thoughts patterns, and challenging our tendencies to jump to wrong conclusions … or to over-exaggerate how terrible things are.

3. Being aware of what is happening, and changing, in our bodies so we know when we are stressed, or are reaching breaking point.

4. Understanding our habits and behavioural patterns – so we’re not at their mercy, and they don’t control our lives.

5. Being aware of our assumptions and expectations, and knowing how they influence various aspects of our lives – like the goals we set, and the things we say and do.

6. Being aware of how our actions, our words and responses affect and influence other people in our lives (in both a positive and negative way).

Always Remind People of Their Worth




if you see someone being interrupted in a conversation, acknowledge them, don’t let them be pushed to the side. if you see someone lagging behind, walk beside them. if someone is being ignored, take the step to include them. always remind people of their worth. it hurts when it feels like you’re being forgotten. that small gesture can mean a lot.

Live Life To Express - Not to Impress


Certainly, none of us enjoy going through struggles, but you have to understand that your struggle may be an opportunity for advancement and promotion. The very thing you are fighting against so tenaciously may be the springboard that catapults you to a new level of excellence. Your challenges may become your greatest assets.

Follow Your Dreams


Follow your Dreams



Follow your Dreams 


Everyone has dreams, regardless of the fact that they're covered profound inside youth dreams. Here's the way to discover them and make them work out.

1. Reach your fantasies. What do you fantasize about doing with your extra time? What unprecedented future makes you feel a tiny bit more invigorated when you envision yourself in it? What did you dream about when you were a kid? Consider it and record it all.

2. Perused books or look at sites identifying with your fantasy. Steep yourself in the stories of individuals who have done or are doing what you need to do. Perceive how they drew closer after their own fantasies.

3. Secure a group. Verify you have other individuals to converse with about your objectives

A witty answer




It's narrating time (with good) 

What is mean by WITTY answer...? 

Give us a chance to appreciate perusing this account of A Wise Counting. 

Ruler Akbar was in the propensity for putting enigmas and riddles to his subjects. He regularly made inquiries which were unusual and witty. It took much knowledge to answer these inquiries. 

When he asked an exceptionally abnormal inquiry. The squires were moronic collapsed by his inquiry. 

Akbar looked at his retainers. As he looked, one by one the heads started to hang low looking for an answer. It was right now that Birbal entered the yard. Birbal who knew the way of the ruler immediately got a handle on the circumstance and asked, "Might I know the inquiry with the goal that I can strive for an answer". 

Akbar said, "What number of crows are there in this city?" 

Without even a minute's idea, Birbal answered "There are fifty thousand five hundred and eighty nine crows, my master". 

"In what manner would you be able to be so certain?" asked Akbar. 

Birbal said, "Make the most of you men, My master. In the event that you discover more crows it implies some now visit their relatives here. On the off chance that you discover less number of crows it implies some have gone to visit their relatives somewhere else". 

Akbar was satisfied all that much by Birbal's mind. 

MORAL : A witty answer will fill its need.